F O R G I V E N E S S









humans in this world wasn't, isn't, and will never be, PERFECT.
We make mistakes, we may break promises at points in our lives.
For example, in the case of helping out ppl,
We can promise to do this for someone,
but ended up unable to fulfil the promise because of our commitments.
No doubt, such a matter like this happening,
anyone could've and would've gotten mad.
I would've been like that too.
But i believe that the anger Should not, and would not, stay for long.
because we ourselves may make that mistake also.
Forgiving others is something that isn't really hard,
or rather,
isn't hard to begin with.
forgiving just takes a few steps.

1. put yourself into that person's shoes
2. think about what you would've done in that situation
3. think about the good times you've spent together, as friends etc.
4. think about the times when you did something wrong to that person
5. let the matter making you angry go

it's just these few steps,
and i believe you can readily forgive anyone.
no doubt it's difficult to place trust in that person again.
if you can't place 100% trust, make it at least 50%,
or even 1% trust in that person, it still makes a whole lotta difference.

that's some thought that went through my mind today.
and i think it does makes some sense, don't you think so too?
=)

just randomly suddenly felt like blogging.
for some reasons.
ehhhh
life has been.
too slack.
i have been
too lazy.
die.

some things are not on track.
my management sucks.
sian diao.

on to some lighter stuff.
after next week's exams,
it's holidays already.
other than SJ, wanna have fun also.
dun wanna waste holidays.
on top of that,
wanna save money.

and and,
come May,
Jie's gonna half-buy me a 32 GB Ipod Touch.
$468 for that.
we figured $160 more for 24 GB more is a good deal.
and why it's half-buy,
is cox i pay half too.
hehe.
Thanks Jie! =)

haix.
come to think of it,
i'm gonna be 18 soon.
so fast.
feeling old? somehow.
only thing i'm pondering about is,
in the past 18 years, have i lived properly?
what have i been doing?
what kinda person have i been?
why am i becoming someone who's CMI?

i shall find my answer before i turn 18.
i hope i will.
and on top of that,
get a solution to the problems.

okay.
That's it for my random post.
and SHINee is coming to Singapore on ATC Day 2.
sian.
LOL.
JA~

it's 5 more days to genting trip.
and i just have to survive till tmr then i can slack le.
okay, apparently not, cox i have to study for exams.
budden, i dun need submit stuff etc la.
hehe..

corps, not exactly going smoothly.
that's a headache.
but i guess we should be able to go through this.
but i dun want to stop at going through.
the only way is up.

okay, i need to stop.
EIS test in another 30 mins.
Ganbarimasu.





Minho is just so adorable~~






So is Yoogeunie~~ xDDDD

JA~

F O U R H U N D R E D A N D F I F T I E T H


yup, it's my 450th post.
life recently, hasn't been great, because of my laziness.
been clearing stuff, unable to do stuff ahead of time.
okay. i have problems with even completing them on time.
this sucks.
and exams are coming. my continual assesments sucks cox i am lazy.
somehow i deserve to die.
haix.
anyways, something i'm glad is that i partially completed what's on hand.
left with several tests, 1 presenation.
haix.
and then, come to think of it, the idea is scary, but i'm going to genting next week le.
like how fast can it get? HAHA.
anyways, i really need to buck up if i even want to get to PASS.
ya, it's that bad. i'm that lousy a person.
procrastination kills. and if i dun pass, i would say to the mirror,
"you deserve it"
but OF COURSE, I DIE ALSO WANNA PASS EVERYTHING!!!!
RAWR~~~
okay, that's all.
JA~.