F O R G I V E N E S S









humans in this world wasn't, isn't, and will never be, PERFECT.
We make mistakes, we may break promises at points in our lives.
For example, in the case of helping out ppl,
We can promise to do this for someone,
but ended up unable to fulfil the promise because of our commitments.
No doubt, such a matter like this happening,
anyone could've and would've gotten mad.
I would've been like that too.
But i believe that the anger Should not, and would not, stay for long.
because we ourselves may make that mistake also.
Forgiving others is something that isn't really hard,
or rather,
isn't hard to begin with.
forgiving just takes a few steps.

1. put yourself into that person's shoes
2. think about what you would've done in that situation
3. think about the good times you've spent together, as friends etc.
4. think about the times when you did something wrong to that person
5. let the matter making you angry go

it's just these few steps,
and i believe you can readily forgive anyone.
no doubt it's difficult to place trust in that person again.
if you can't place 100% trust, make it at least 50%,
or even 1% trust in that person, it still makes a whole lotta difference.

that's some thought that went through my mind today.
and i think it does makes some sense, don't you think so too?
=)